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Nicky Marr: Superhuman kindness and true compassion at Moray and Banffshire Heroes 2022 Awards

By Nicky Marr

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Nicky Marr with a trio of superheroes.
Nicky Marr with a trio of superheroes.

“I’m going to need someone with superhuman strength to help me get into my outfit.”

That was the cry from the bedroom next door, as I was putting the finishing touches to my script for the Moray and Banffshire Heroes Awards in Elgin last week. There were just 15 minutes to go before the red carpet was rolled out, the skirl of the pipes filled the air, and we started welcoming the finalists and their friends and families to a glittering awards ceremony to celebrate the unsung heroes of the region.

But here, in a suite in Elgin’s Mansefield Hotel, was a serious wardrobe emergency. Did it need my attention?

Thankfully, and as if from nowhere (but actually, from the bathroom), a Shielded Avenger and a Caped Crusader appeared. Batman held Captain America’s shield while super-soldier Steve Rogers helped Marvel colleague, Iron Man, to fasten his breastplate into place. Snap, snap, relax. Crisis averted.

It’s the first time I’ve shared a dressing room with superheroes, and I hope it’s not the last. But, heroic as these three were, they were merely the side-stars of the show.

Our mission that evening was to celebrate the unsung heroes of the region, the teachers and NHS workers, fundraisers and volunteers, emergency services workers, carers, and public servants, who regularly go beyond the call of duty to make the lives of others better.

Nicky Marr with Isabella Whinfield.
Nicky Marr with Isabella Whinfield.

Our mission was to celebrate future generations too; brave, adventurous, and selfless children, who will undeniably go on to do great things in their lives and communities.

Last Thursday's awards didn’t celebrate the richest, the most successful, or most dynamic. Instead, the buzzwords of the evening were “kindness”, “compassion”, and “caring”. It was truly humbling to be amongst so many people, for whom “doing the right thing” isn’t for glory or for profit, but simply to help others, to ease a burden, or to steer someone onto the right path.

If I have half the energy that Dot Bremner has at 83, I’ll be thrilled. Dot teaches dance classes all over the north-east and was easily the best-dressed on the night. Her deafness and blindness don’t hold her back.

If I had a quarter of the compassion and emotional intelligence that air-ambulance paramedic Kris O’Neill shows, I’d be a better parent, partner, and friend.

And if I had the heart that Lorraine Taylor has, I’d have all the riches I needed. With over 250 children and young people through her care, Lorraine was voted not just carer of the year, but overall hero of heroes too. Lorraine couldn’t be there on the night, so her grandson accepted her award. Like over 1500 others, she watched the ceremony on Facebook Live. I hope we did her proud.

We’ll do it all again in Highland next week. If you nominated or voted, thank you. If you have been shortlisted, thank you for everything that you do. We’ll see you there!

Superheroes, know your place. The real heroes of the Highlands will be coming to town.

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